“What porn category do you watch the most?” I’m often asked, and the answer is gangbang. I adore the taboo, but no matter how much I’m gagging for some group sex, I’ll never do it; it’ll always be a fantasy.
For those pondering, a gangbang is a slang term for a group sexual activity where one person has sexual encounters with several partners in the same session, usually one after another or with multiple people involved at the same time. It’s most commonly used to describe situations where one person is the focus of attention from a group of partners.
The term is mostly used in pornography or sexual discussions, but in real life, it refers to a type of consensual group sex among adults. Like any sexual activity involving multiple people, it requires clear consent, communication, and attention to safety.
There are several reasons why I lust over a gangbang. The first being the dominance it would bring. Can you imagine 10 to 100 men having their wicked way with you? Filling all your holes?
Here are five other reasons I want to partake in group sex.
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Feeling highly desired
The idea of multiple people being attracted to you simultaneously can create a strong sense of validation and desirability.
The idea of multiple people being attracted to you simultaneously can create a strong sense of validation and desirability.
Novelty and excitement
It’s outside the norm, so it can feel thrilling or taboo, which heightens arousal for some people.
It’s outside the norm, so it can feel thrilling or taboo, which heightens arousal for some people.
Power and control dynamics
Depending on the fantasy, it can be about either surrendering control or being the centre of attention—both are common fantasy themes.
Depending on the fantasy, it can be about either surrendering control or being the centre of attention—both are common fantasy themes.
Curiosity and exploration
Some people are simply curious about experiences beyond traditional one-on-one sex.
Some people are simply curious about experiences beyond traditional one-on-one sex.
The separation between fantasy and reality
Many people enjoy the idea of something they would never actually want to do in real life—fantasy doesn’t always reflect real desires or intentions.
Many people enjoy the idea of something they would never actually want to do in real life—fantasy doesn’t always reflect real desires or intentions.
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Not only have gangbangs recently been big in the news thanks to adult actress Bonnie Blue, who claims to have slept with 1,000 men in 12 hours and 400 men to get pregnant, but they have always been about.
I remember being a teenager coming across the gangbang porn category, and desperately craving that kind of sexual attention.
Longing for it for many years, at 21 years old, my ex-boyfriend agreed to roleplay a gangbang with me. To do this, he put on different accents, used various-sized toys, wore different costumes and masks, and went to great lengths to ensure I had as close to a real-life gangbang as he could manage.
I came over and over again, and it’s an experience I’ll never forget. I’m writing about it in great erotic detail for my erotic memoir, Free Use.
Have you ever wanted a gangbang? Or had one? Let me know by emailing vavaviolett@outlook.com.
Written by VavaViolet Magazine’s Founder and Editor-in-Chief, Sophie Blackman.
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