While I am a complete and utter slut online, I have been very boring in real life for the last two years. I put so much into my masturbation sessions that I don't feel the need for casual sex anymore. Thus, I no longer have any sexy time with others, and shockingly, I don't seem to be minding at all - here's the details on how I get off.
That is a lie. I mind sometimes. For example, as most know, I experience coregasms - orgasms while working out. After sharing my weird gym problem on VavaViolet Magazine, I wrote about it for The Sun; then it went viral - this was in 2021, and it is still a considerable problem for me.
It means after working out, I ponder how good it would feel to get fucked, then I have a few minutes of remembering how much I have forgotten what that feels like, until I get myself off and remember all I need is me.
It is a vicious cycle, but one that always ends in an orgasm. I try to have one a day, it's good for the old brain.
The last time I had a good old fuck was just before summer 2024. It was full-on BDSM, and I remember being tied up and choked. I also remember the orgasm, short but sweet.
Before my masturbation session, I like to kick it off by smoking a joint. Always more cosy and fun just before bed. I do this while listening to music that gets me in the mood, such as Shut Up and Listen by Nicholas Bonnin. I turn the lights down and stick a candle or two on.
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Then I get out my expensive and luxurious massage creams and lube. Giving myself a massage, I focus on the breasts and nipples. Using the lube to lubricate my vagina.
I play with many other erogenous zones, such as ears and thighs, as it can shoot sparks of pleasure throughout your body.
I'm quite fortunate and used to run a sex toy column for Daily Star Online, so I have hundreds of sex toys to choose from. Meaning I don't get bored, and I'm still sent new ones to review for VavaViolet Magazine to this day.
I have my favourites, of course, those being both from Lelo. They are the Sona and Soraya Wave.
Sona works to massage the clitoris, while the Soraya Wave is a vibrating penetration, also known as a rabbit vibrator.
I use the two in sync and opt for ethical porn or erotic novels. Sometimes I opt for nothing at all, except my imagination, or I have friends online that I can comfortably and satisfyingly sext with.
There isn't much to a good masturbation session than making sure you're comfortable, don't get bored, and don't feel guilty after, as it's perfectly natural.
Written by VavaViolet's Founder and Editor-in-Chief, Sophie Blackman.
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