Celebrity dating coach, expert and author James Preece is answering whether you should move on or not if you’re the one always initiating conversation.
James was approached by Tom* (identities will always be kept anonymous). He asked whether he should “read the signals” and move on, or try harder to get them to make more conversation.
He wrote: “I’m always the one initiating conversation. Should I keep trying or read the signals and move on?”
James answered: “Communication has to be a two-way thing. So, if one of you is talking more than the other, this can be very frustrating.
“I'm going to assume you aren't constantly sending them messages without a break, as that could be a reason for slow responses.
“Nobody wants to be bombarded all the time without a break in between, no matter how much you like each other.”
James continued: “If your partner isn't giving much back, then you do have to ask why. It could be as simple as the fact that they prefer phone calls rather than texting.
“Everyone has their own communication style. Just let them know gently that you'd love to hear from them more and find out what balance they are happy with.
“What's more important is whether or not they are trying to arrange dates. If they aren't interested in this, then sending more messages won't fix the problem.
“If this is the case, stop contacting them. If they chase, then great. If not, then move on. Life is too short to be treated badly.”
By Celebrity Dating Coach & Relationship Expert James Preece.
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