“Why I like men with chunky big dicks”

“You’re a rare commodity,” my rather well-endowed ex-boyfriend told me one night as we lay in our cum after a heated fuck. It was after informing me that it’s “not easy” to come across women who like large and chunky penises. I, on the other hand, can’t get enough, and controversially wouldn’t marry a man on the smaller side.

From customising my sex toys to be the largest girth and size brands have to offer, to having a line of exes with huge cocks, I have always been a ‘Size Queen’.

According to Chat GPT: “A ‘size queen’ is an idiomatic, often LGBTQ-originated slang term for a person who strongly prefers or prioritises sexual partners with larger-than-average penises.

“It refers to someone whose primary desire in a partner is based on genital size.”

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There are two precise reasons why I opt for the chunkier parts, the first being to see if they can make me go sore. I have a pain kink, and am heavily into BDSM, so a little bit of pain-play is needed to satisfy me.

For me, size is visually arousing and, admittedly, associated (rightly or wrongly) with dominance.

I opt for 8 inches and above, which differs from a study published in the journal PLoS One in 2015, where researchers used a variety of 3D models to survey women’s preferences for penis size.

On average, women preferred an erect penis size of around 6.4 inches in length and five inches in circumference for one-time partners.

Women also preferred a slightly smaller penis of about 6.3 inches in length and 4.8 inches in circumference in a long-term relationship, compared with what they wanted in a short-term relationship.

Another 2017 study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine looked at the average size of sex toys purchased from adult retailers and Amazon.com. The authors found that the average length of sex toys purchased online was 16.7cm ± 1.6 cm, or 6.57 inches — about one standard deviation longer than the average male penis size reported in research.

Admittedly, I’m relieved there are not that many “Size Queens” about, as the only downfall of the chunky penis is that it’s hard to come across, and even harder to forget when it’s gone.

Written by VavaViolet Magazine’s Founder and Editor-in-Chief, Sophie Blackman.