6 Sex myths to slightly frighten you this Halloween

From terrifying pregnancy rumours to orgasm myths that refuse to die, the bedroom has its fair share of monsters.

This Halloween, we're separating sexual fact from fiction. Consider this your spooky-season survival guide for your sex life.

1. You Can't Get Pregnant During Your Period

Think your period is a monthly get-out-of-pregnancy-free card? Think again. Although the chances of pregnancy are generally lower during menstruation, it is still possible to conceive if you have unprotected sex. Sperm can survive in the reproductive tract for up to five days, and ovulation doesn't always follow a predictable schedule.

The fright factor: Your period tracker is not a contraceptive. Use reliable contraception if you want to avoid pregnancy.

2. The First Time Always Hurts

Thanks to centuries of whispered warnings and questionable sex education, many people still believe that losing your virginity must involve pain or bleeding. In reality, neither is inevitable. Some people experience discomfort, while others don't. Anxiety, insufficient lubrication and rushing can contribute to pain.

The fright factor: You don't have to endure pain to prove anything. Slow down, communicate and stop if something hurts.

3. You Can Tell Someone's Sexual History by Their Body

This one belongs in the sexual folklore graveyard. There is no reliable way to determine someone's sexual history by examining their genitals or looking at their body. Hymens vary naturally, and their appearance cannot establish whether someone has had sex.

The fright factor: Anyone claiming they can identify a virgin by sight has been watching too many horror films.

4. Women Always Orgasm Through Penetration Alone

Here's a myth that deserves to be buried six feet under. Many women do not consistently orgasm from vaginal penetration alone and may need direct clitoral stimulation. Bodies differ, and there is no universal formula for pleasure.

The fright factor: Treating penetration as the entire event can leave pleasure missing in action. Communication is much more useful than following a script.

5. You Can't Get an STI If Someone Looks Healthy

Unfortunately, sexually transmitted infections don't arrive with a warning label. Many infections can cause no obvious symptoms, meaning someone may have an STI without knowing it.

The fright factor: Looking healthy doesn't tell you someone's STI status. Testing, condoms and honest conversations can help reduce the risk.

6. Once You're in a Relationship, You Don't Need to Talk About Sex

Think settling down means you can retire the awkward conversations? Not quite. Desires, boundaries and comfort levels can change over time, even in long-term relationships.

The fright factor: Assuming you know exactly what your partner wants can create misunderstandings and resentment. Consent and communication remain important, whether you've been together for six weeks or six years.

Written by VavaViolet Magazine’s Founder and Editor-in-Chief, Sophie Blackman