My hoe phase was filled with threesomes, one-night stands, and having ten friends with benefits on the go at once. I was so much of a hoe that I ended up on TV to have an STI test in front of the nation. While I learned a lot about sex and relationships, some of those lessons were harsh, and some will shock you to your core.
The first lesson I learned was just how many men love to swear and name-call their sexual partner during the act.
I lost count of how many guys loved calling me a "bitch" or "slut" while deep inside me. Did I mind? No, not even slightly, in one ear and out the other, but there is certainly a huge percentage of lads that adore swear words.
Another thing I discovered was just how many will slyly, without permission, take photos of you during sex.
On a few occasions, I caught guys in doggy taking a snap, or while giving them head. Of course, they were immediately dropped from the roster.
On another note, while I can honestly put my hands up and say I have never slept with another woman's man, it's terrifying how many taken guys tried it on during my slutty phase.
It has, in many ways, put me off relationships, and instead I tend to prefer friends with benefits. Having never been cheated on myself, I plan to keep it that way.
One thing I learned that genuinely surprised me is that one of the best ways to turn a man on is to smell good.
Take it from a woman who has slept with 50 men, if you smell good, they'll be harder and go harder.
Another shocking and simple way to get a man going is to say his name during sex.
As Dale Carnegie famously said, "Names are the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
One disgusting thing I learned was how little (most) men clean or change their bedding. I'm talking about leaving the same bedding on for over a month!
I'd love to hear what you have learned during a hoe phase, so comment below!
Written by VavaViolet Magazine's Founder and Editor-in-Chief, Sophie Blackman
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