Have you ever fantasised about bondage? From The Addams Family to Euphoria, it has become increasingly referenced within popular culture over the last decade, making bondage a more common practice for couples to try out together.
Read our guide below to find out everything you need to know about bondage for beginners.
What is bondage?
Bondage refers to the act of being restrained for the purpose of sexual gratification.
It usually involves a sub/dom dynamic where one partner is in charge, but this is not a fixed role; it can be fun to take turns with your partner and explore different roleplay fantasies.
As it represents the ‘B’ in ‘BDSM,’ bondage is often confused with a masochistic practice, but it doesn’t have to be painful. This depends on your level of experience and personal preference.
Consent and communication are key here; it is common to establish a safe word with your partner and build towards more extreme practices slowly.
What do you need?
There are a variety of binding tools you can use to restrain your partner, such as ropes, cuffs, tape, collars, and blindfolds.
Rope is generally considered the most versatile and easily accessible, but it's important to consider the material and length you want to use; nylon ropes will produce sturdier knots, but the material is rougher on skin than their silk equivalent.
Hand cuffs are a popular option, and blindfolds add to the experience through sensory deprivation. For the more adventurous, there are spreader bars that can be attached to the bed, allowing you to restrain the ankles and wrists at the same time.
How do you do it?
Although this may appear straightforward, there are many different ways a person can be bound. For example, you could start by tying different body parts together before moving on to tying them to different objects.
Decoration bondage is a popular method where rope or tape is used to accentuate certain areas of the body, and as mentioned above, there are tools you can use to spread body parts and suspend your partner in midair.
However, if you are not comfortable with being physically restrained, why not try verbal bondage? This involves following verbal commands, so rather than being tied up, you could be instructed not to move or to remain in a fixed position.
Would you be willing to try bondage with your partner? If you have already, why not write in and tell us about your experience!
Written by Leah Marie Cox
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