The dating scene can be a confusing and ugly place in the 21st century. On dating apps, especially, women are more likely to receive short-term sexual offers than genuine interest in their personalities, and it can sometimes be difficult to spot the red flags and stop yourself from skipping towards them.
Read on for 8 warning signs that he’s only interested in your vagina.
You’re not his girlfriend
A man who genuinely wants to be with you will happily tell others that you are his girlfriend and essentially stake his claim.
Forever immortalised in the romantic comedy John Tucker Must Die: “Does he always use pet names like 'baby' and 'sweetheart?' Yeah, it's not out of affection; it's so he won't mix up your names.” Be wary of this.
He’s more interested in his friends
It is important to strike a balance between spending time with each other’s friends together and separately.
However, if he is only interested in spending time with his friends, chances are he’s not that serious about your relationship, as this requires time and effort.
There’s also a chance that if they are routinely spending consistent time away from you, they may have another partner.
You haven’t been introduced to his family
When a partner is serious about you, they will want to introduce you to their close family and get their seal of approval.
If you have already been dating for a few months and there have been no discussions about meeting them, they might just view you as a placeholder until the right person comes along.
He doesn’t want commitment
Although things may start out casually, after a few months of dating, it should be apparent to both parties whether they want to take the relationship in a more serious direction.
If they would prefer to remain casual at this point, then they are still keeping their options open.
You never go to his place
This is a giant red flag. If you have been dating for a few months and you have never been to where they live, they might be embarrassed about their living standards, or more horrifyingly, they could already be living with another partner.
You don’t go out in public
Think “Netflix and Chill.” If your relationship primarily occurs indoors, in private, then it is more of a sexual relationship than an emotional one.
What do you get out of this? If a man is interested in you, he will make time to date you and express his interest properly.
He’s always busy
If he’s always busy or cancelling plans at the last minute without a genuine reason, as the 2009 romantic comedy wisely informs us, He’s just not that into you! Avoid at all costs.
Poor communication
Similar to the above, if you make plans and they fail to contact you within a reasonable time to let you know they won’t be able to go, don’t waste your time!
It’s very easy to send a text message, and if he’s genuinely interested, he would be apologetic and want to speak to you about rescheduling.
Have you ever encountered any of these red flags? Why not write in and tell us one of your own personal horror stories!
Written by Leah Marie Cox
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