From sleeping with two people in one day to trying a virtual sex party experience from the comfort of your couch, we have put together 10 unique ideas for you to add to your sex bucket list.
Here are our 10 ideas:
Put on a performance
If being watched excites you, this idea might appeal to you. You could give your partner a private strip tease, film something together to enjoy later, or even join a secure, anonymous platform to share the experience with others—always with clear consent.
If being watched excites you, this idea might appeal to you. You could give your partner a private strip tease, film something together to enjoy later, or even join a secure, anonymous platform to share the experience with others—always with clear consent.
Exhibitionism exists on a spectrum, so you can decide what feels thrilling, empowering, or simply playful.
Sleep with two people in one day
Single? Non-monogamous? Looking for an adrenaline rush?
While practising safe sex, of course, and if the opportunity presents itself, consider indulging in the rush of power and eroticism that comes with sleeping with two different people in one day.
Wear a tail-style butt plug
Butt plugs can be fun on their own, but ones with tails add a playful twist.
Butt plugs can be fun on their own, but ones with tails add a playful twist.
They can bring a role-play element into the mix—like pretending to be an adorable pet, maybe even a magical unicorn.
It’s a lighthearted way to explore a different vibe and add some fantasy to the experience.
Explore dual stimulation
If you have a vagina and are curious about experiencing stimulation in more than one way at once, it doesn’t require multiple partners.
If you have a vagina and are curious about experiencing stimulation in more than one way at once, it doesn’t require multiple partners.
Toys like dildos make it possible to combine different sensations simultaneously—whether you’re pairing one with a partner or using two on your own (with plenty of lubricant).
It’s a flexible way to explore what feels best for you at your own pace.
Record a solo session
If you’re not with a partner—or just prefer some alone time—you could try filming yourself.
If you’re not with a partner—or just prefer some alone time—you could try filming yourself.
Watching it back can be surprisingly exciting, and you might even learn more about what you enjoy.
It’s a playful, self-focused way to explore your own pleasure from a new perspective.
Try a virtual party experience
Online adult-themed gatherings can be a low-pressure way to explore ideas such as group dynamics and public-style excitement.
Online adult-themed gatherings can be a low-pressure way to explore ideas such as group dynamics and public-style excitement.
The bonus is that you can join from the comfort of home—no need to go anywhere or even get fully dressed if you don’t want to.
Have fun on the washing machine
There’s a reason this one shows up so often—it’s a bit of a classic.
There’s a reason this one shows up so often—it’s a bit of a classic.
Whether you’re with a partner or enjoying some solo time, it could be fun to see what makes it so talked about. And if you happen to get some laundry done at the same time, that’s just a bonus—pretty productive and enjoyable all at once.
Try to teach yourself how to pompoir
Pompoir = squeezing your vaginal muscles during sex for added stimulation.
There are lots of ways to do this — Rose recommends using a jade egg to strengthen these muscles — but you can also do this without any fancy toys.
Just squeeze!
Write your own steamy fanfic together
They say to write what you know, so why not draw inspiration from your relationship and blend it with a little imagination?
They say to write what you know, so why not draw inspiration from your relationship and blend it with a little imagination?
You can share it out loud or let your partner read it privately while you watch their reactions. Don’t stress about it feeling a bit playful—chances are they’ll be intrigued and flattered.
And hey, if it somehow turns into the next big bestseller, maybe keep that royalty split in mind.
Have super slow, tantric sex
Think of tantric sex as like sex meets meditation.
The experience creates the ultimate, deep connection, resulting in mind-blowing, extra-sensual sex.
Plus, it can help reduce stress, help you sleep, and result in very intense orgasms.
Written by VavaViolet Magazine’s Founder and Editor-in-Chief, Sophie Blackman
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