Over the last year, we have seen a rise in conversations about the necessity of increased sex education within secondary schools to educate future generations about consent. While we’re all for it, it doesn’t change the very real statistics suggesting it is, in fact, older generations who need to develop their awareness of what constitutes rape.
One example of where the parameters have clearly changed is the phenomenon known as “stealthing,” but what actually is it, and what can you do if it happens to you?
Stealthing refers to the non-consensual removal or damage of a condom during sex or a failure to use a condom whatsoever without your intimate partner’s agreement.
In England and Wales, both instances are considered rape, as is ejaculating inside someone without their prior consent because it puts your sexual partner at risk of harm.
Namely, unplanned pregnancies, STI transmission, and psychological damage.
So what steps should you take if you are unfortunate enough to find yourself a victim of this type of crime?
Firstly, get to a safe location and, if you’re willing, report the crime to your local police. Your personal well-being is the main priority, and we appreciate that reporting may not feel like a realistic option depending on your personal circumstances.
However, if you have recently been raped, this is what we would advise nonetheless, because it is important to provide any physical evidence to the police as early as possible.
If you do decide to report the crime to the police, an ISVA (Independent Sexual Violence Advocate) should be on hand to assist you and provide support while giving your statement.
Although your instinct will most likely be to clean yourself, you must remain in the same physical state as when the rape occurred; do not shower or change your clothes because it is necessary to preserve physical evidence where possible to get the best outcome in prosecution.
Alternatively, if you do not feel comfortable reporting the incident to the police, it’s important to talk about your experience either with someone you trust or a verified rape and sexual assault helpline to help process it.
Rape Crisis offers a 24/7 helpline that’s accessible via online chat or by calling 0808 500 2222.
You also have the option to reach out to your local SARC (Sexual Assault Referral Centre) for more support, and the NHS website also offers a service search to help you find one closest to you. This can be accessed here: Find a rape and sexual assault referral centre - NHS
Written by Leah Marie Cox
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