A happy ending massage is a full body massage ending with a sexual favour. Traditionally, this has been associated with men and has gained cultural significance in tourist-dense countries, particularly in Asia, where happy endings are offered as a paid service. Although women are typically less likely to resort to using paid services, you can always give this a try from the comfort of your own home.
Follow the five-step guide below to find out how to give your partner a massage they won’t forget:
Set the mood
Whether you’re at home, abroad, or in the great outdoors, it’s important to create a relaxing atmosphere for you and your partner.
You can make the setting for a happy ending massage as elaborate or as simple as you like.
Find a time when you won’t be disturbed, light some candles, and prepare a comfortable space for you both to relax without distractions.
Alternatively, if you feel like going all out, you might try dressing up or incorporating some roleplay. For example, if your partner has a fantasy about experiencing this kind of massage in a professional setting, you could recreate that setting at home.
Prepare your massage tools
For any kind of massage, you will need massage oil, and it’s best to have it ready beforehand to avoid interruptions.
Coconut oil is a popular choice because it is also safe to consume, or why not spice things up by using a massage oil candle? This is also the perfect opportunity to bring in any toys you may want to use on your partner or items such as restraints and blindfolds that can intensify the overall experience.
Massage everywhere (excluding their genitals)
Start slowly, spread the oil all over your partner’s body, and take care massaging their back, chest, and shoulders.
Build up tension by avoiding the more sexual areas of their body until they are already aroused.
Take the time to enjoy your partner’s body and make them feel valued, gently increasing massage pressure as you go.
The all-important happy ending
Once your partner is physically writhing beneath you, you can turn your attention to their more erogenous zones.
Focus on their nipples first and alternate between gentle stroking and harder pinching before transitioning to their genitalia.
If your partner has a vagina, first focus solely on their clitoris and then consider stimulating their G-spot and their clitoris simultaneously for an orgasm twice as intense.
Alternatively, if your partner has a penis, first start by stroking up and down, then why not change up the rhythm, use your tongue or use both hands.
Remember, be gentle, but don’t forget to massage their balls!
Aftercare
You might be thinking that aftercare is only for BDSM associated activities, but this is also an important way of connecting with your partner and rounding out the overall experience.
You could run a bath for your partner and help to wash the oil off their body, or why not shower together? Cuddle up afterwards and take some time to talk about the experience.
Ask your partner what they enjoyed most, how it made them feel, and if there’s anything they’d be interested in trying next time.
Have you ever tried something like this with your partner, or would you be interested in it? Write in and tell us about your experiences!
Written by Leah Marie Cox
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