A cervical orgasm, or “C-spot” orgasm, happens when the cervix is stimulated during sex. Don’t panic, ladies! I’m sure if you have given birth, you may be thinking, “How can that possibly be enjoyable,” but trust us, it’s definitely worth giving this one a try.
It’s not possible to truly penetrate the cervix during sex, and the pleasure instead arises from the friction of bumping against the opening during deep penetration.
You might read the above and realise you’re part of the 35% of women who have already been having cervix orgasms, but if you’re not one of the lucky few, let's find out how you can have one.
Follow the five steps below for a mind-blowing experience.
Explore Solo
To figure out the best way to experience this with your partner, it is best to experiment on your own first and find what feels good for you.
It is unlikely that you will be able to reach this spot comfortably with your fingers, but there are plenty of sex toys designed to reach your G spot.
It’s important to make sure you are fully aroused before proceeding to the cervix; this might be quite uncomfortable otherwise.
Communicate
It’s really important to communicate directly with your partner beforehand to ensure you are both on the same page about what you want from the experience.
Start slowly before working your way to more intense penetration and directly state what feels good and what doesn’t.
Foreplay
We cannot overstate how important this is for every sexual encounter, but particularly for cervix orgasms, this is essential.
It is an incredibly sensitive area, and if not fully aroused, it can become painful rather than pleasurable very quickly. We would recommend stimulating the clitoral area simultaneously to increase arousal.
Choose the right position for you
The sex position you choose can impact the level of penetration, and so it is important to make sure you select a position that allows for this, like doggy style or cowgirl, where you are also comfortable.
This is easily achievable if you are on top of your partner, as it allows you to remain in control of the angle and speed.
Explore at different times of the month
The position of your cervix changes during the month in relation to your menstrual cycle; it resides lower during your period and higher as you approach ovulation.
Therefore, it is important to take this into consideration and test this out at different stages of the month to find out when it is most pleasurable for you!
So, what do you think? Would you be willing to test this out with your partner? Let us know in the comments!
Written by Leah Marie Cox
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