In an increasingly digital world, using traditional methods of communication to tell someone you love them can be more heartfelt because it shows an additional level of effort. Once upon a time, I wrote a love letter to a boy in an attempt to win him back, and although part of me still cringes with embarrassment as the attempt was in vain, I could not recommend a more cathartic way to express your emotions.
Read on to find out how to write an old-fashioned love letter.
The passionate greeting - Is there a more iconic start to a love letter than Mr Darcy’s “You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you?” It’s definitely a tough one to beat, and it also serves as an excellent example of how to get straight to the point and surprise your love interest with the depth of your feelings. You could start your letter with something simple, such as “My dearest**” or “my beloved,” something more romantic like “the one who holds my heart,” or why not personalise it by including a nickname used only by you and your partner.
Clearly express your feelings - Use your first paragraph to clearly express your feelings for your partner and what inspired you to write the love letter in the first place. Is there a specific event coming up, like a birthday or anniversary? Are you writing an apology, or maybe you just want to make your partner feel special? Whatever the reason, this is where you should clearly articulate what makes your relationship special to you.
Include examples of what you love about your partner - It’s very easy to generalise with flamboyant sweeping statements of love, but it’s a lot harder to explain the little things you appreciate about your partner. Make sure to include specific examples to tailor the letter to them personally. Instead of saying, “I remember the first time our eyes met,” think about the colour of your partner's eyes and be specific about the ways they look at you and how it makes you feel.
Re-impress your devotion to them - Before finishing your letter, this is the place to conclude its purpose. Where do you see the future of the relationship going, and what are you hoping to achieve from writing a letter to your partner? This could be as simple as wanting to make them smile or as elaborate as featuring in an engagement proposal. It's entirely up to you, just don’t skimp on the sentimentality!
Heartfelt closing - End your letter with romantic language such as “with all my love” or “forever yours” before signing off. If there’s anything you feel you have missed from the body of the letter, why not add on a P.S. This could be a funny in-joke between the two of you to lighten things up after what will potentially be an emotional read.
Have you ever written a love letter for your partner? Why not give it a try!
Written by Leah Marie Cox
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