5 creative ways to easily bring out the kink in your relationship

Everything these days costs so much money that it can be hard to keep the kink in your relationship. While there are expensive sex hotels you can visit and overly priced sex toys taking over the market, we have come up with five free creative ideas to bring back the heat.

From creating an OnlyFans account that only your partner can view to sensory play, here are five ideas to bring the kink back into the bedroom.

Create an OnlyFans account just for them

It’s free and dead easy to set up an account, and then you can only send it to your partner so they can enjoy hiring you. Just don’t charge them a penny.

Perhaps he wants custom content of you taking off his football team's shirt, or wants to see you play with your sex toys by yourself.

On OnlyFans, you can get really creative with your requests, making it a lot of fun for a partner to experience.

Start a group chat with just you two

Now, this group chat with just you and your partner in it isn’t for chit-chatting. It’s for jotting down things you want to try in the bedroom together.

For example, you could put in the chat: “I want you to clean the house in a sexy maid's outfit and let me fuck you.”

Then, when you’re both in the mood, you can look back at the chat, and all your ideas are in one place.

Introduce sensory play

Explore temperature sensations by using safe items like ice cubes or warm massage oil to discover how different temperatures affect arousal and sensitivity.

Incorporating light restraints using soft items like silk scarves or neckties can gently restrict movement and introduce a safe sense of vulnerability and trust-building.

Experiment with impact play by starting with very light tapping or gentle swats, which allows partners to gauge comfort levels and interest in impact-based sensations.

Utilising playful props by incorporating blindfolds, feathers, or massage tools can help focus attention on specific sensations and enhance the erotic experience.

Try ultra-relaxing foreplay

Two words for you: naked massage. In these stressful times, we could all use some extra TLC, so offer your partner a sensual massage.

For this foreplay idea, you need nothing more than the lotion you already keep by your bedside—though you can experiment with various lubes, oils, or massage candles—and be prepared for things to heat up quickly.

Make a home movie

Smartphones make it easier than ever to make an X-rated home movie.

Even if you watch it once and delete it, you'll always have the experience in your memory.

Just make sure to keep digital safety in mind—and that any content stays exclusively on your phone.

Written by VavaViolet Magazine’s Founder and Editor-in-Chief, Sophie Blackman.