Have you ever heard of temperature play? We’ve all experienced that sensation of entering the house on a particularly cold day, only for the welcoming warmth to set our fingers on fire. I assure you that in the right environment, varying the temperature has the potential to awaken your senses.
What is temperature play?
Temperature play is a form of sensory exploration that involves using hot and cold objects such as ice, wax, and water on the body to produce different physical responses.
It relies on developing a rhythm between pleasure and restraint; the unexpected contrast in temperature activates the body’s nerve endings, but it’s important to play safely to avoid burns, numb spots, or surface irritation.
The key is sticking to body-safe temperatures and testing everything on yourself first.
What items can you use for temperature play?
Ice cubes are an easily accessible option for anyone interested in temperature play. Holding an ice cube in your hand, you can glide it over different areas of the body, paying attention to spots like the neck, wrists, and anywhere that feels especially responsive. Remember to avoid holding ice against the skin in one spot for too long, as this can cause burns.
There are massage oils and candles that are specifically designed for sensual play. It’s recommended that you let the liquid wax pool, blow out the candle, then pour. Keep in mind that the temperature of the wax depends on how you hold the candle; the closer the candle is to your partner’s body, the hotter it will be on their skin.
All of these options have the potential for mess, but none more so than water. If you are particularly concerned about that, then why not view this as the perfect opportunity to move things into the bathroom? The shower is ideal for temperature play because you can easily adjust the temperature between hot and cold and use the showerhead to target specific parts of the body.
You can also experiment with temperature using toys. Both silicone and metal toys are suited for temperature play because they can be warmed and cooled in running water. However, where silicone toys more easily adjust their temperature, metal toys tend to hold heat or cold for longer, making them ideal if you’re looking for a more intense contrast against the skin.
People usually keep it simple and safe by using everyday items that hold or transfer heat and cold gently, but soft items like feathers, fabric, or brushes can be paired with temperature changes to heighten the sensations being experienced.
Written by Leah Marie Cox
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