Is reading getting sexier? Why bookworms get more dates

In a world devoted to doomscrolling, the dating landscape is changing. Reading is getting sexier, and this is carrying over into online perspectives. 

Recent studies indicate that 58 per cent of people are unlikely to date someone who doesn’t read, and as many as 1 in 3 have admitted to faking interest in books to impress a match. 

So why is it that bookworms are getting more dates right now?

Book content is getting sexier, and readers are too. If a dating profile shows someone reading, 24 per cent of people will instantly swipe right, and the rising popularity of spicy books on BookTok suggests increasingly liberal attitudes towards sex. 

Is there a growing assumption in the dating sphere that people who read these kinds of books are likely to be spicier in the bedroom? We think so.

There is also a long-held belief that people who read are more intelligent and therefore more attractive. There have been concerns over the last 20 years about the decrease in reading for pleasure in the UK and its impact on the overall intelligence of our communities. 

Reading demonstrates a desire to learn and continually re-educate oneself, which is extremely attractive to a potential partner.

Furthermore, people with advanced intelligence are generally believed to have higher levels of empathy and open-mindedness, which are also appealing qualities if you’re searching for a romantic partner. This is because reading demonstrates that you are willing to consider different perspectives on the world and broaden your horizons.

Increased intelligence and empathy also correspond to an overall sense of emotional maturity. Readers tend to be comfortable having deep conversations about the world, and this can extend to emotional intimacy within their romantic relationships. 

Couples who communicate openly are more likely to have successful long-term relationships, meaning reading can also be a sign of security and stability.

However, this doesn’t mean that you should fake an interest in books just to get laid. Even though bookworms are getting more dates, there are plenty of other hobbies that can be a turn-on for a potential partner, and it’s always best to be yourself!

Written by Leah Marie Cox